
A special kind of happiness exists in seeing order begin to return to a house.

Over the past couple of months, Brenda and Hayleigh have been helping me methodically work through my house, and I cannot tell you what a difference it has made. And not just to the house – It has made a remarkable difference in me. These two have cleaned, sorted, carried, shifted, arranged, and steadily helped me reclaim rooms and corners— things that had become too hard for me to manage alone.

Now I need to say this: I love organization. Always have. In my day, I was an organizing fanatic. My house didn’t always show it, but I could straighten, sort, arrange, and temporarily improve my home with the best of them. Lately, I have not had mobility or spunk to do what needs to be done. And just as importantly, I have not had enough room. Space IS the final frontier, and space has been one of the greatest gifts Brenda and Hayleigh have given me. They have created room to breathe. By carrying things downstairs to be stashed, by moving one category out so another one can move in, by making room for the house to function again, they have made it possible for things to look more as I think they should. The china is a perfect example. There was no earthly way those china closets, cupboards, and shelves were ever going to look pretty and sensible. Easter, Halloween, and Christmas were all trying to live in the same real estate. No wonder it all felt crowded. No wonder the shelves were defeated and sad. Once Brenda and Hayleigh began making magic, giving things a proper home, the China could finally begin to look like China again instead of a traffic jam with gravy boats.

And these two have a gift for organization. They enjoy it, they understand it, and they are good at it. They can walk into a room and begin to see order where other people only see a problem. That is a real gift, and I admire it very much.


I have known Brenda a very, very long time. She was one of my first students when I began teaching. I remember well a pretty, little blonde girl who sat by the window in my classroom. So there’s something especially sweet about having her in my life all these years later, helping me in this season of it. And now to also have her granddaughter Hayleigh here feels like one of those unexpected, full-circle blessings that life sometimes gives us.

These two have meant so much to me, and the spirit they bring with them really shines. They come in this house cheerful. They work so hard. They make quick decisions. They laugh. They keep going. Three hours with them each week passes faster than anything possible, and yet by the end of it something real, almost magical, has happened every single time.These pictures tell a good bit of the story. Trying to find places in the drama, craft things get sorted into tubs. Shelves begin to make sense again. Rooms feel lighter and more usable; however, the pictures do not quite show the relief or the encouragement of it. The companionship of having good women helping me bring order back to my world sparkles as the real star of the show.
This fabulous grandmother-granddaughter duo has been a real blessing to me, and I am so grateful.
The pictures tell a good part of your story but your words make this story complete. I could see and hear it all. The hard work the laughter and I can feel your joy and relief ❤️❤️
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ReplyDeleteHey girl, it's Becky. I've never been anonymous. You are so fortunate to know someone who understands your ways of organizing. I under stand liking everything to be just right. I have a bit of OCD in that area and it is so frustrating to no longer keep my home the way I used yo.
ReplyDeleteGAYLA! I wondered what had happened to you and then saw your post on Lawn Tea! I am so glad that you are blogging agin. What wonder workers those girls are! I am happy they are helping you and I know when you feel better about your home you feel better all the way around. I, too, have been on an organizing and clean-it-up kick and getting rid of things that don't speak to me anymore. That's the hard part!
ReplyDeleteYou need to get a 'follow by email' button on your blog here so we know whne you post. Much love to you. Diana
Oh, the Order and the CLEAN and the PRESENTABLE!!! What a Godsend these two are, and your former sweet associations are lovely lagniappe to a Life-CHANGING event they're engineering and carrying out. I swear, I'm going STRAIGHT to Hell. I'm sitting here envying you those sweet beings who are getting order into your life. I, who just had the gift of a new sink/faucet/insinkerator installed---Easter gift from Leah, and done in two hours by the nicest young man, who offered to mow my lawn FOR FREE because "It's really BAD out there."
ReplyDeleteI do admit to the height of the spent dandelions, which, along with enough violets to deck Oberon's Dell, caused me to wave away my twenty-year mowing crew who have served us so well these years, because I LOVE this ephemeral season, with its fragile lifespan, of yellow and violet run rampant over more than half of both lawns, with scatters of the Color WHeel so vibrantly flourishing across the moss and ivy.
And me envying anything that will put your life more in order, make you sleep sweeter, give you the strength to keep getting up in the morning---ANYTHING in that genre is FABULOUS to me---I've been so worried about you and so much missing your presence and hoping for a brighter day to come.
I so apologize for that hellbound envy, but your friends seem to be SENT to you---possibly from one DAY, one instant in the life of that small girl who learned and thrived and had a brighter life, just because of Miss Gayla. I don't know a soul in this vicinity that I could call on to do such meaningful change, so here I sit. Ours is getting better, and I'll put the money on the porch for the mowers tomorrow, they'll do two weeks in one, and we'll go on.
You know I wish the sweetest, most uncomplicated, best-ordered life for you. I rejoice in your Angels, and perhaps I'll soon find my own.
I wish I had a dynamic duo like yours!! Their cheerful attitude looks so helpful and they sure do have the "organizing" gene!!! Space is freeing, isn't it!
ReplyDeleteOh what a Blessing those Two are! And how Organized!!! I had to steal your "Space IS the Final Frontier" Line for my next Blog Hook Title, too damned good not to, it would have been a waste not to use it again. *Winks and Thank You for such a Clever Line* I've got a 3 Generation Household now and we'd Downsized about 6 Years ago and brought way too much of our own Cargo to a much smaller Home, then had Grown Kids and Grown Grandkids have to move back Home due to the Economy making Independent Living unaffordable locally for Younger Generations. So now we have all my Too Much, along with all their Worldly Possession, so, Space is indeed the final Frontier. But, The Daughter and the Grandson are doing what your Two are helping you with and it's such a relief. I am not Organized, it's not my strength to be, organized Chaos is how I tend to be, they're good at it, so is The Granddaughter, The Son and The Man... so I'm the worse offender of the Six of us Sharing Space. Limited Space for so many, we didn't expect to increase inhabitants while downsizing space for our Old Age. But, having Young People present to Help is wonderful. What yours have done there is envious!!!
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